I was given a piece of advice by a good friend of mine named Tom Fehlman. He said “Always try to prove your assumptions wrong.” This advice is PRICELESS. When you have an assumption, it’s easy to prove yourself right. But if you turn it around and try to prove yourself wrong, you’ll ask yourself a completely different set of questions, and subsequently, may even see things from a different perspective. Assumptions can be one of the most dangerous things a person can do regarding success, because it’s not the assumptions that get people in trouble. It’s acting upon them without verifying first. Assumption gives birth to 3 children that will destroy your business, or personal, life.
1. Assumption is the Mother of Mis-communication: When you assume you already know what someone thinks, or is going to say, you don’t fully listen to them. You have your response already in your mind before they finish their sentence, and will usually cut the person off mid sentence. Or worse, instead of asking the question first, we act off of our assumptions and exacerbate situations. Take the time to fully listen to what someone has to say. THEN verify what you heard and what they said align. It will will prevent costly mistakes down the road.
2. Assumption is the Mother of Inefficiency: When you think you already know what you need to do, or how to do it, you tend to not read the instructions; and important, time-saving information is missed. It’s like not reading the assembly manual, but instead, putting something together our own way. We somehow always end up with extra parts when we’re done. And thus time, energy and potentially money is wasted going back to find out what we did wrong. Learn the rules, directions, expectations and process BEFORE you start a project or journey. It will save a lot of time and headaches.
3. Assumption is the Mother of Failure: Most people fail because they lack the necessary information needed to succeed. They think they know everything, so they do it their way. Often with poor, or incomplete data, lack of preparation, or bad timing. Either way, when you act upon assumptions without proper verification, you set yourself up to fail. Hopefully, you will recognize this and correct yourself before you’re too far into the process. But if you don’t, there will come a point when you’re too far gone to fix it. Don’t assume. And if you do, take the time to ask anyway. It’s better to take an extra 30 minutes to do it right, than another 2 weeks to do it over. Until next time…..
God Bless and Dress Well,
William Wilson, CEO William Wilson Clothing